Comments on: Japanese girls want to marry Chinese?

By: Bygaoxiang

Bygaoxiang — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 12:46:00 +0000

I come from China
There are lots of Chinese men like Japanese and Korean girls .
In Chinese men ‘s opinion , JP an KR girls are very lovely , gentle , kind , politence ,”Kawaii !”
In current China , sexul proportion is serious unbalance . ( male : female == 120 : 100 )
Due to economic depression , infation , the price of apartment and house is extreme highest all over the world !
If you want to married a CH girl , She and her family will request you must have a regular job ( salary more than 3000RMB)
a house (apartment) ( cost 600,000~1,000,000 RMB ) and a car ( cost 300,000~800,000RMB ) and “three golds”( ring , necklace , bracelet ) hold wedding ceremony ( cost 20,000~30,000 RMB )
The price of commodity is ” flying high !” , But the salay is still nothing…
Sometimes ,We complaint that :” How much is a girl ? ” ” Money is everything today ? ”
Many true-loves broke up due to the problem of survive . We have no dare to love without money .
In order to get rid of reality , we can watch some JP or KR Tv shows . Such as variety-show ,KR drama ,JP anime ,MTV,AV
Whether men or women ,dream of a JP or KR partner who without any secular and selfish,
Eventually , CH man still married CH woman .
I think CH man like JP woman is true
But I don’t believe that Japanese woman prefer Chinese man rather than Western
Do you trust a news which come from the news organ of the Communist Party of China ?
That’s ridiculous !!

By: Joey

Joey — Fri, 05 Nov 2010 23:09:30 +0000

Well just because a certain number of Japanese guys thought that way doesn’t mean all of them do now do they? Japan itself in the world isn’t a very big place, but there are still different people there with different ideas. Not all are racists, I think you’re generalizing too much.

By: Avp

Avp — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 09:05:12 +0000

Show me the source for your more detailed statistics. No source means no evidence to support your comment.

By: lynne

lynne — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 15:18:27 +0000

Can I have your source for your statement?

By: Caroline Yu

Caroline Yu — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 07:25:50 +0000

I want to also let you know that Chinese men from mainland China lack romantic finess. They don’t even know how to dress properly and even comb their hair often. They must learn to not just stick their toungues into women’s mouths and ram it in and grab too quickly geeky style showing instant neediness in a romantic setting. I am serious, Chinese men from mainland China is like dating a geeky klutz. They have terrible bedroom performance also. Any man from any country would be better than men from mainland China. I therefore perfer a caucasaian for a partner due to their ability to treat a partner well.

By: lol

lol — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 13:44:07 +0000

jealous that we taking over your economy?lol

By: Vince

Vince — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 02:08:12 +0000

I saw the same ” popular saying here “: “http://english.peopledaily.com.cn/90001/90782/90872/6839840.html”

what a coincidence

By: Vince

Vince — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 02:01:36 +0000

HO ho ho ! That’s so cute … It’s good to dream, isn’t it ?

” there is a popular saying …” Pfff … Whith that, we can go anywhere … Why not in space ?

Do you know this story ? There is a popular saying about a old man with a red jacket who must come each 24th December . Did you see him with his sleigh in the night ?

I see that the crisis also made disasters in Journalism, not only in economy.

A french Guy

Happy new year from France, have fun

By: Diamond mind

Diamond mind — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 08:57:04 +0000

What I do find funny is China’s love hate relationship over Japan. Mainland Chinese are usually anti-japan to the point of racism. Speaking about marrying someone the Japan, would be a potential homicide. The other question is are they from mainland Chinese or from Taiwan or even Foreign Born Chinese. All these do make a difference.

By: MC Okii Dokii

MC Okii Dokii — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 07:03:01 +0000

I think your friend is kinda shallow…
I mean, she married him for his Chinese food, thats kinda sad.

By: Marcos

Marcos — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 06:10:33 +0000

Here in Brazil, a friend of mine (her father is japanese) married a chinese guy almost for the same reasons.

Is it a genetical fate?

By: ponta

ponta — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 16:00:01 +0000

“you placed your clear generalization within a rhetorical question “・・・・Let me know if I can help you further.

Did you take it as a rhetorical question?
You can certainly help me further. What made you assume that I was making a rhetorical question?

Or are you offering to help me on how to use chopsticks, which American Anime I should watch or what ?

By: Buster

Buster — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:46:58 +0000

I would say the same goes for all countries.

By: leitmotiv

leitmotiv — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:27:22 +0000

Yes I do. But your generalization above is clear and inescapable. That you placed your clear generalization within a rhetorical question does not change the fact that it is a generalization. Hopefully you will learn the difference. Let me know if I can help you further.

By: ponta

ponta — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:15:22 +0000

A good point. That is why I just asked and didn’t make the sweeping generalization.
Do you understand the difference between making a broad generalization and asking if it is true, leitmotiv?

By: leitmotiv

leitmotiv — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:28:01 +0000

What do you mean with “English journalism”? Does it mean “british journalism” or perhaps “all journalism in english language”? Either way, it sounds like a pretty broad generalization for one who claims to fight generalizations.

By: Lawrence

Lawrence — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:00:53 +0000

Let’s just face it – most Japanese people avoid foreigners. Maybe some nationalities more than others.

By: Togu

Togu — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 01:51:38 +0000

LoL are you guys trying to get japanese girls back? I see alot of strange msgs here.

By: Luke

Luke — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 01:21:16 +0000

I’m pretty sure it goes without saying that Japanese girls prefer Japanese men over anything else.
We shouldn’t fight for sloppy seconds, here.

By: Robert

Robert — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 16:35:53 +0000

I think that has more to do with the big population there. Americans have been hovering 52,000 and you have to split that to the number of men, then you have a higher per population percentage. Meaning there’s less american men to go around. While the marriage statistics for them have not gone down. I don’t think french men were even listed out of all the years they counted them. Only American and UK men.

By: blue cat

blue cat — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 15:14:37 +0000

I saw more detailed statistics.
Most Japanese women who get marry with Chinese men is their second or third marriage and in their thirties or forties.
Chinese women who got marry with Japanese men would get Japanese Nationality after three or five years, so that they become Japanese themselves
Then they get divorce from their Japanese husbands.
Finally, they get marry with Chinese men as Japanese women.

By: RMilner

RMilner — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 12:12:28 +0000

Exactly.

It plays into an unpleasant nationalistic, racist and sexist way of thinking.

By: helical

helical — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 08:50:40 +0000

If I had to choose between never eating garlic and having bad breath, I’ll take the former any day.
Hm, that may explain my lack of frien … er, never mind …

By: Ajapa

Ajapa — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 08:44:19 +0000

The question needs to be asked, Why must “inferior and superior” be brought into marriage. Isn’t marriage about compatibility and love?

Yeah! It is a typical misogynist and/or sexist mindset which regards females just as a kind of a war trophy. It is the exact reason for why marriage and superiority are associated each other. The number of women acquired is a good measure of their superiority! Heehaw!

By: kevin

kevin — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 07:25:41 +0000

Thats funny…. I always thought Japanese guys thought Chinese and Koreans were criminals.

By: Kankoku

Kankoku — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 07:03:57 +0000

Korean men still top, anyway.

By: MC Okii Dokii

MC Okii Dokii — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:13:22 +0000

that being said.. are we talking about Gyaru chicks, or Otaku chicks?

haha… I dont think the writing of this article was throughly thought thru.

By: japanobserver

japanobserver — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 05:57:51 +0000

The question needs to be asked, Why must “inferior and superior” be brought into marriage. Isn’t marriage about compatibility and love? Whoever wrote this article is a total dumbass. But then again, it’s the people’s daily, of course it reeks.

By: kitsura

kitsura — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:43:43 +0000

Mainland Chinese or overseas Chinese. There is a very big difference.

By: Ajapa

Ajapa — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:38:48 +0000

Is this written by some specialists at 2-channel? It smells…

By: Ken Aston

Ken Aston — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:20:19 +0000

Thanks for giving those additional numbers. 2.8% of American men (in Japan) versus 0.2% of Chinese men (in Japan) getting married to Japanese women. Speaks for itself, doesn’t it.

By: Vlad

Vlad — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:15:47 +0000

my new year’s resolution is to marry someone, anyone…
whatever nationality, heck, even a Klington or Vulcan will
do… and move to Hawaii. enough said….

By: Private Underpants

Private Underpants — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:57:06 +0000

What is all this nonsense and blustering?

By: Raymond

Raymond — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:37:14 +0000

I find this quite amusing. There was another article a while back indicating that Japanese men do not wish to be masculine. This could also be a possible cause for Japanese women to marry Chinese men. Otherwise they would all be lesbians.

This is certainly quite interesting. But more details and breakdowns would be helpful in fully understanding the situations.

By: LB

LB — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:31:24 +0000

I just remembered an incident from Australia about 15 years ago or so – a Chinese woman living there wrote a book that said, among other things, Chinese men were terrible in bed and Australian men in particular and Western men in general were great.

Chinese in Australia actually had mass demonstrations condemning her as a “traitor of the Han race”, demanding she be arrested for libel etc. It was really quite amusing how massively insecure a lot of Chinese felt about that book.

Something about Chinese men being more “capable” reminded me of that incident.

By: PewPew

PewPew — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:12:33 +0000

Sorry I mean to type OHYAKUSHOU, as in, a farmer. Sorry for the spelling mistake LOL

By: PewPew

PewPew — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:11:39 +0000

What I want to know is, what KIND of Japanese girl/woman are marrying what kind of these Chinese men. Are they predominantly modern-city-gal types that are marrying newly-extremely rich, Westernized-Chinese men who are jet-setters or something, or are they country-gal Ohakyushou-san farmer types? THAT is the question.

They can’t just very well GENERALIZE the entire type of Japanese girl now, saying that a general Chinaman is attractive, now, can they? LOL

By: MC Okii Dokii

MC Okii Dokii — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 00:59:32 +0000

“A representative from Japan’s China information research institute told the reporter that the quick development of China’s economy and Chinese people getting richer are the most important reasons for Japanese girls changing their appetites. Also because Japan has more women than men and Japanese men compared to Chinese men are generally less capable when it comes to being both a considerate family man and a breadwinner”

Wait a min?! are you implying my g/f is a gold digger and she doesnt real love me?!…

… well that sucks! haha

anyways, did they ask the Japanese women on their thoughts on communism?!

By: LB

LB — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 00:52:04 +0000

I wonder what the People’s Daily makes of the fact that around 12,000 Chinese women have married Japanese men every year for the past several years? Or if they would even mention the fact that 8 times as many Chinese women marry Japanese men as Japanese women marry Chinese men?

So, um, who should be feeling “inferior” again?

By: ponta

ponta — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 00:27:45 +0000

December 12, 2009
Japanese ladies long for date with brutal men of history
Richard Lloyd Parry,

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/asia/article6954029.ece

Is Chinese journalism on Japan catching up with the level of English journalism on Japan or is English journalism backsliding into the level of Chinese journalism?