i think people here in japan are more shallow then in the west…..thats why anorexia and bulimia are huge problems in japan.

Nutrition is some of it, but certainly not all of it.

aside that most women in this world marry because their husband was kind to them and an arsehole to other people around. 70% of them did it with him because he was running around like a sex-crazy rabbit and was driving cool looking car of his dady. the love was mostly over 1-2 years after the first child. then it was to late and to lazy to change the partner or the living situation(devoted people love to repeat that “even greatest arsehole has positive on him”).

when i was jung i met very nice girl. she told me i was poor, so she married rich old dude who is beating the crap out of her and their children now and spend his money for prostituion and presenting himself as a greates gift to this world. what should i say? i hate this woman now. she hurt me very hard and she never gave me a chance.

A great excerpt from a “notmilk.com” article ( http://notmilk.com/deb/072698a.html ) :

“What happened to young girls and the impact of milk consumption on puberty is even more dramatic. In 1950 the average twelve-year old girl was 4’6″ tall and weighed 71 pounds. By 1975 the average Japanese girl, after guzzling a daily diet of milk and dairy products containing 59 different bioactive hormones, had grown an average of 4 1/2 inches and gained 19 pounds. In 1950 the average Japanese girl had her first menstrual cycle at the age of 15.2 years. Twenty five years later, after a daily intake of estrogen and progesterone from milk, the average Japanese girl was ovulating at the age of 12.2 years, three years younger.”

My comment:

Milk sold during 1990s and 2000s was even worse. 20 years ago in America, many young women were not so tall. But today their heights are much higher (many are as tall as 180 cm. Some are even taller. – Yes! Women!). This is because that they are consuming rBST-infected milk (rBST residues in milk). Men? Some are pretty giants. They need to worry about hitting doors’ maxmium heights, espcially homes. FDA approved the rBST product in 1993. Anyone born later than the mid 1980s is likely to be affected.

In 2009, American consumers wanted no rBST (artificial growth hormones / recombinant bovine somatotropin – rBST) in milk. It caused most of milk products to go rBST free.

Not only rBST can increase an animal’s size, but it can also cause cancer.

Now if the men were …well, men
the women would be giving signals all over the place.

At this rate the island wil be depopulated in less than three generations.

Long term real estate investment anyone?
长期不动产投资任何人？

Sadly, any man wanting children needs to think before he marries a woman aged over 35 no matter how attractive she may be.

Comment by Togu
2009-09-11 04:09:29
Why is that?
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The reason is that women’s reproductive capability declines significantly around the age of 40. Various kinds of problems are more likely than with younger women.

As for single unmarried women, I know of quite a few. They are not picky nor do they have dumb fantasy conditions in their head. The three women that I know are wanting to get married and are in the their mid thirties just have no time to meet anyone. All they see are people from work and family, a continuous cycle. Most have to be set up on blind dates (if it can be scheduled) or have friend’s introduce them to other friends. That’s how my in-laws got married and seems to be the tradition. Also, I introduced my close Japanese friend to my husband’s best friend (who is far from the “ideal” image)and before i knew it, she was pregnant at her wedding. That happened in a period of six months of dating too. Most Japanese women I speak to (that are married)tell me they did not marry for love or money, they married because their husband was kind.

The conditions don’t change with age. They just become crazy and more stubborn.

Knowing that the aging ladies most likely will be racked with mental issues is why most guys aim for the marriagable age.

And i’ve meet j guys that also have huge mental issues.

And most of the foreigners in Japan get married. Either foreigners are too stupid to develop mental issues or foreign culture doesn’t push these high conditions on a marriage partner.

@William George
Getting knocked up assumes the girl is even having sex. In Japan, that’s a big if.

@Eddie
She’ll never re-evaluate her conditions. Lost cause…Move on…

Men of course want to marry too, and may not be averse to keeping a housewife if they can afford it.

Sadly, any man wanting children needs to think before he marries a woman aged over 35 no matter how attractive she may be.

For the man, you mean….

And seriously, marriage? Fool’s game.

Play the field, sister.

http://www.mutantfrog.com/2009/03/25/a-hard-bargain/

If man her age with a good job and solid income isn’t married, he probably won’t be looking for an older woman.

One reason for a woman to get married early (again based on the sexist konkatsu premise) is to get in on the ground floor with a man who might not be successful now but will be in the future. This whole konkatsu phenomenon has a kind of sad overtone that these older women lose most of their value to society if they stay unmarried for too long.

One of the nice things I always thought about Japanese people, and women in particular, was the *lack* of importance they placed upon body type, especially aspects of body type which can’t be changed, such as height. So long as you make an effort with your appearance, you don’t have to be 6ft tall or have film star looks. It’s a shame if Japanese women are adopting the same prejudices as women in the west.

These criteria were operating in the 1980s, so it is not a new thing at all.

Don’t watch CNN online vids, but my guess is she’s still in the starry-eyed search mode and will adjust her standards to mildly more realistic levels when she realizes how few men meet her current criteria.

I think she needs to buy a mirror and then re-evaluate what she wants.