Opinions of Japanese who date foreigners: Part II

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    More results from online polls on a site that is frequented by Japanese women who date foreign men. Keep in mind that these are non-scientific polls, and that the site has a large community of Japanese women who are interested in American military men:

    Poll #4:Diffcult situations with your foreign lover

    Rank Response Votes
    1. Language misundersandings 80
    2. Visa 61
    3. Selfishness 54
    4. Jealousy from Japanese men 38
    5. Worries about being popular with women　（The situation of foreigners in Japan） 30
    6. Jealousy from Japanese women 27
    7. Kissing in Public, Jealousy from Japanese Women 21
    9. Loose with time 20
    10. We have no difficulties 19
    11. My partner doesn’t like Japanese food, The high cost (internationl travel and phone calls) 18
    13. After getting married it is difficult to visit Parents 16
    14. Stinginess 15
    15. My body can’t keep up (implies sex) 13
    16. Time difference 10
    17. Cultural differences are too much 9
    18. He’s friendly to women (as a friend), Parental opposition 8
    20. Difficult to quickly see family in the event of an emergency(if they are in another country), Body Odor, I contracted AIDS 7
    23. Too serious about money (Won’t treat me), Unhealthy eating habits 6
    25. Jealousy from women 5
    25. Selfishness/Egotism 4
    27. He likes to play around with women 3
    28. He has an overprotective mother, He dated me for monetary reasons, He has a fondness for women and tells lies, He likes clubbing 2
    29. Religious differences, I can’t understand his way of thinking, Always talks about family & considers it most important 1

    Poll #5:What is your reason for liking foreigners/a foreigner?

    Rank Response Votes
    1. He/She expresses what is on his/her mind honestly 98
    2. He/She is reliable/indepedent, He/She is Kind 83
    4. The person I liked just happened to be foreign, He/She’s cool 80
    6. He/She had sex appeal 50
    7. He was a gentleman 38
    8. He/She really cared for me and expressed his feelings 25
    9. She’s beautiful 23
    10. I was in an enivornment with many foreigners and few chances to meet Japanese men 22
    11. He/She is very good at showing affection 19
    12. He/She is a good kisser 15
    13. He/She is cute 14
    14. “Ladies first” 13
    15. He/She is well attuned to the subtle changes in my heart 7
    16. Western society is not so male dominated 5
    17. He/She values mutual communication, He isn’t afraid of hearing what I think, I can calmn down when seeing his/her smiling face, He’s an affectionate macho guy

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    21. He/She doesn’t worry about being affectionate in public, I like American brands, “Lady first”, To study English, He/She is very affectionate & thinks about me, “Fucking good”, Love at first site, He/She says interesting things 3

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    Poll #6:What type of girl do foreigners like?

    Rank Response Votes
    1. Girls with a nice butt 96
    2. Girls who express their opinions 68
    3. Girls with long black hair 48
    4. Smart casual girls 31
    5. Girls whose face type is not popular in Japan 30
    6. Girls with clean white teeth 29
    7. Girls who have figure and face that are attractive worldwide 19
    8. I was in an enivornment with many foreigners and few chances to meet Japanese men 8
    9. Girls with long legs who look like models (but are not skin and bones), Girls with big breasts, Sexy girls, Intelligent and beautiful girls, Girls with an attractive quality 6
    14. “Nice Ass”, Girls who listen to what they say 5
    16. Shy girls, Cheerful girls, Girls with smooth beautiful skin, 4
    20. Girls with pretty eyes, Girls with good English, , “Wild Lady with Big Ass”, Someone like Kumi Koda or Misaki Itou, A girl with a sexy mole on her face, Dark-eyed girls 3

    While the surveys are hardly representative of Japanese people as a whole, they certainly provide insight into the thinking of a particular group of Japanese women who date foreign men. The surveys raise many important questions:

    Is butt shape the primary determining factor in gaijin attraction to Japanese? Did 7 girls who responded to the first survey actually get AIDS from their partner? Do Japanese who date foreigners experience a lot of jealous from Japanese men and women?

    What do you think?

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