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What Japanese women want: Korean men?

August 31st, 2006 by James

The Washington Post brings us this serious and hard-hitting piece of journalism:

TOKYO — Thin and gorgeous in a slinky black dress, Mikimoto pearls and a low-slung diamond Tiffany pendant, 26-year-old Kazumi Yoshimura already has looks, cash and accessories. There’s only one more thing this single Japanese woman says she needs to find eternal bliss — a Korean man.

She may just have to take a number and get in line. In recent years, the wild success of male celebrities from South Korea — sensitive men but totally ripped — has redefined what Asian women want, from Bangkok to Beijing, from Taipei to Tokyo. Gone are the martial arts movie heroes and the stereotypical macho men of mainstream Asian television. Today, South Korea’s trend-setting screen stars and singers dictate everything from what hair gels people use in Vietnam to what jeans are bought in China.

Yet for thousands of smitten Japanese women like Yoshimura, collecting the odd poster or DVD is no longer enough. They’ve set their sights far higher — settling for nothing less than a real Seoulmate.

The lovelorn Yoshimura signed up last year with Rakuen Korea, a Japanese-Korean matchmaking service, to find her own Korean bachelor. And she is hardly alone. More than 6,400 female clients have signed up with the company, which says its popularity has skyrocketed since 2004, when “Winter Sonata” became the first of many hot Korean television dramas to hit Japan. Even in Shinjuku ni-chome, Tokyo’s biggest gay district, niche bars with names such as Seoul Man have sprouted like sprigs of ginseng in a Pusan autumn.

“South Koreans are so sweet and romantic — not at all like Japanese guys, who never say ‘I love you,’ ” Yoshimura said as she waited for her blind date, a single Korean man, in the 50th-floor bar of a chic Tokyo skyscraper. A telephone operator who lives with her parents in Hiroshima, she has spent thousands of dollars on her quest for a Korean husband, flying to Seoul 10 times in the past two years and bullet-training to Tokyo for seven blind dates with Korean men.

So far, though, she hasn’t found the one she’s looking for.

“Maybe I’m living in a fantasy world,” she said, pouting her blood-red lips. “Maybe I’m looking for the TV stars I can’t really have. But we are all allowed a dream, aren’t we?”

Some of you are probably gagging at what you’ve just read, but don’t worry, non-Korean guys. The article goes on to acknowledge that male heroes in Korean dramas are perfect men that don’t actually exist in the real world. That won’t stop girls like Yoshimura from continuing their search for a perfect Korean man.



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6 Comments »

Comment by The Man
2006-09-01 14:52:41

Blah, ha ha ha ha ha

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Comment by Lee
2007-01-10 07:49:27

You guys are just jealous of us sexy korean guys :P

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Comment by Jason Yuki Kim
2007-02-22 18:55:09

Hi there.

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Comment by Sexy Corean
2007-03-07 10:15:56

That’s RIGHT!! Sexy and Corean Males are in high demand.

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Comment by GTSAIYAN
2007-05-02 06:20:52

Hahaha, that is soooo funny, there ARE Koreans who arn’t that good looking, and I’m Korean. I look similair to Lee Jung Jae but I don’t consider myself extremely good-looking, nor charming… Hmm, I have watched Korean dramas and some of the Korean Dramas have touched me, to the point where I was sheding a few tears, like Stairway to Heaven, and some other old dramas. Wow, I’m pretty amazed I havn’t found any racist comments on this page. There must be a lot of mature people here. Above the influence. I hope…

~Later!!

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Comment by Korean
2009-06-22 07:08:16

i’m a korean guy (well, at least my background is), but i really don’t appreciate b.s. like this. how shallow can you get? “racist love” theory is probably true.

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